Man what a weird meltdown going on today.... All over signing day coming up.
He ain't wrong though. I coached an 11U team in a socio-economically challenged area of Athens this past Fall. You'd be amazed at how many of them were willing to sacrifice their kid's health to play multiple football games in a weekend. How many would send their 10 and 11 year old kid in there to play 14-15 year old kids. How many used their kids to try and get a trip to Florida to play in a tournament they had no business being in, while missing a week of school for it, and even after their kid had been suspended from school for acting out during the Fall. 98% of them felt their kid should be running the ball. They felt because they showed up that their kid should start and was being recruited at age 11. The crap they put in their kid's heads was unreal. They aren't honest with their kids, they don't care about their health, and the will turn on you in two seconds. One kid last week that we played got on top of one of our kids and started punching him like ground and pound. His coach came out there and said "we from the hood and that's what we do and how we act". Same kid turned around to the fans and yelled "fuck you". An 11 year old kid did that. His momma came around later that game and everyone could tell where he got it from. Yelling "fuck you", "nigga", "pussy ass", Imma beat yo ass boy", and smoking weed in the parking lot is rampant at a lot of these travel programs where these kids are raised like that and their parents act even worse. All this being yelled at the kids in the middle of a game, not behind doors, but right in front of the parents, officials, and opponent. You absolutely hate seeing it and the future is very bleak for these kids. You want to talk about cycles that are impossible to break, there you go.
It made my son better because he had to deal with athletes that usually had more ability and speed than a rec team. these kids were horribly coached for the most part and their team's sucked because they had no direction, bad coaching, and all of what i said above dictating it all. BUT, it did make my kid a better ball player as he was well coached and has ability that took him to a level he wouldn't see athlete wise and size wise in our small community. one of the joys I had in all of this was actually coaching our players and the reception they had to it. Their parents were fucking idiots, but they were still innocent kids that want to care and love something/someone. Buying them multiple uniforms, buying them all receiver gloves, backpacks, team gear meant EVERYTHING to them, so that's why I did it. I'd do it all over again and most likely will any chance I get, but the parents are idiots and most of them shouldn't be allowed to raise kids or have them under their roof. I can see where all of this comes from these days.