Personal view here:OldPlayer bringing some tap the brakes logic into the thread. I was thinking the same thing but did not want to dampen Sgt's honeymoon phase enthusiasm. If it is the real deal they will see each others warts (we all have them) and still be good with it. Best of luck Sgt...
You're saying this to a guy that went through a bad break with his ex.
Ever considered this alleged new squeeze has seen the same thing? Marriage isn't as attractive as those who are entrapped in it tend to believe.