A real woman is a person born without a penis and has a uterus.
Look, I'm not stupid enough to sit here and think that internet banter is going to change your beliefs or political views. In the history of the internet, I doubt that has ever happened. In the little bit of back and forth here, my assumption is that you are in the south (bible belt) and you have been hurt by people of christian faith about your daughter and her situation. You have painted with some broad strokes when you call every christian a bigot. It is like northerners or the media stating that everyone in the south is racist or everyone that supports Trump or wears a MAGA hat is a goat humping toothless redneck or racist. It is a narrative that is being pushed. I have had the good fortune of being able to travel to all 4 corners of the US and 5 other countries. I have seen and witnessed racism every where I have been in the US. The worst was an Italian guy from New York. He hated everyone.
You state that people with bibles are free to push their agenda, but they do receive a ton of harassment. A guy I used to go to church with, would go down town Bham and attempt to hand out bibles around UAB. The police came several times and would attempt to run him off or threaten him. He eventually sought legal council and learned the lingo and his rights and now they don't bother him because they know (that he knows) they are bluffing. But he was harassed.
Last week in Canada a teenage boy was arrested for doing the exact same thing in a downtown area of Calgary.
I'll say this. There was a time that christians and or the christian narrative prevailed and did or said a lot of things that were mean/wrong/hateful (pick your adjective), but those days are long gone. Now people that don't think or agree with you are viewed as a bigot or racist or a hate monger, and nothing could be further from the truth. Stating there are only 2 genders is not hate speech, but to listen to the "narrative", it is.
I have listened to quite a few people speak that have transitioned, and the most interesting one was a man (in California) that transitioned and lived as a woman for 8 years, and then transitioned back to a man. ( He almost had surgery, but he didn't). During his 8 year stint as a woman, he stated that he went to college to become a licensed counselor to help others like him. His statistics, not mine. 100% of all people attempting to transition had mental health problems and 82% had been sexually abused as children.
Where people are kicking back is this: You want to use pro-nouns, that is fine. Play make believe. You can't get pissed when you look like a dude and I refer to you in a masculine way. (the entire Spanish language is masculine/feminine) I should not be required to play make believe with you. When a person has schizophrenia and hears voices, you don't have a conversation with the make believe person. This only makes it more believable for the person with schizophrenia and enforces their bad state of mental health and condones the behavior. We are on a slippery slope and it is not going to get any better. I am already seeing snippets where pedophiles are using the argument that they are born that way and are attempting to normalize their behavior. When does it stop?