Hypothetical: You're sitting at a bar having a beer with one of your friends. In that conversation he shares some things with you that you'll discuss, learn something at the same time, all the while knowing you're not supposed to walk down to the other end of the bar and start sharing your conversation.
Through the years we've all had information shared with us knowing—often by request—"let's keep this between us." I know that's happened with work, family, and football with a lot here.
So ... where does the fault lie?
I don't see it as a gift either. I see it as a character trait.
Agreed. And, another character trait, no?
I think you're only getting part of the point. Personally, I wouldn't be posting stories on public forums about anyone (player, staff, etc.) getting drunk. I'm just not "cut" that way. It's my opinion anyone who does such, in effort to have "e-cred," has some issues.
However, when one copies their own posts to point out "look what I said" and it's the same subject? What's the motivation?
He very well may be a nice guy. I don't know. All anyone is left with is their impression.