I understand what you're saying, but I grew up trying to mimic Gary Sheffield's swing or Dale Murphy in backyard homerun derby as a kid. I broke countless nerf goals on my door flying into it dunking like Jordan from the free throw line, I've done just about everything you have mentioned with countless athletes because I was a sports freak and just wanted to do what they did, yet I still will not break down for a week or even once when one dies, regardless of how it happens. Kobe was definitely a Top 5 player and I can understand the initial reactions and grieving that comes with more of a shock than a true connection. It shocked me from the standpoint of his daughter being killed and his two youngest kids never knowing their father personally. I have kids and that's how it affected me, but I just shook my head about it and moved on with my day. The other thing I had mentioned was an athlete during my youth dying and how time has glued by to the point at which more will start perishing as it's that time in my life where these guys now have some age on them and it's a new experience for me. To me it's just the fact that we as humans have to go about our business and move forward. How many times have we seen an athlete's parent die and they are back out there two days later back to work, if even that long? I only say that because there are some basketball players that are saying they just can't play yadda yadda and they even postponed a game because of it. Life goes on in my book and time doesn't stop in times of a tragedy. When Jordan dies, will everyone be mourning as much as they are with Kobe? I also guess I see it from the standpoint of Kobe being a mess off the court and sleeping around on his wife and kids. My dad did that to my momma and me, so I have hard feelings on that selfish behavior. So while he was a great ball player, there are other things I value in life and realize the show must go on and my life won't stop so therefore I have to keep moving too. Social media has just changed society to where folks feel they have to grieve over someone they never met or never knew, and that they can get more likes if they do, and they all act like they are victims of a tragedy that has nothing to do with them. Muchlike those selling "collectables" as you put it, it seems like many others are trying to be victims in this to garner attention whether it be emotional support or financial support. It's a sad deal, I agree, but I just can't understand the consistent reactions from guys like LeBron that I never knew to be that close with Kobe. There are definite connections, but I have never really read of them being BFF. Did Coach Saban miss a beat? He wrote a press release as I'm sure it's simple etiquette, and after speaking with the team I'm sure it upset him, but I doubt he took any time off or a break from his day other than to release a statement. Mind you how big of a basketball fan he is. Sorry for the long rambling post, just trying to express me not understanding the fallout from it all to the extent of where it went.