Because of privavcy laws and Title IX, I don't think we'll ever know what happened. The timing of this article always makes me wonder. First, why wait until now to write it if she felt that strong? Title IX and privacy laws don't prevent her from naming names and dates, yet she doesn't. I had also read the same thing that the girl was the agressor at the party. Was she mad because he didn't call her back? I know ND feels strongly about these type of things and won't just sweep them under the rug.
As far as the student manager, his name is Declan Sullivan. He was filming practice from atop a lift on a windy day when a gust of about 30-35mph blew over the lift and killed him. Very sad story, but ND did not go into hiding. They fully cooperated with the authorities including the state police and attorney general and had several face to face meetings with the family. The school also did away with lifts and installed a video system worth about $100,000where the cameras on the practice field can be controlled remotley. To honor him, the team wore DS decals the rest of the season. The univerisity reached out to the family and created an endowed scholarship in his name. His family is deeply involved with the school and helps administer the scholarship program. Declan will remain a part of Notre Dame forever.