I realize I'm on a pretty lonely island here, but the leading of the band stuff just isn't a big deal to me. Like OldPlayer alluded to, to the victors go the spoils... I say this all the time, but it is stuff like that, that makes the SEC so great. The little extra spice added to the rivalries. Everything auburn does annoys me, but if they didn't do that stuff, the rivalry wouldn't mean as much to me. It's the pettiness that helps set the SEC apart from other conferences. Stuff like aubie trolling LSU by wearing a Troy costume in Baton Rouge when LSU was coming off a loss to Troy, then losing to LSU. Alabama sound guy trolling Cam Newton before the game with his music selections, then Cam beating UA. Countless examples of stuff like that. But, if one is bothered by Manning hopping on a ladder and leading the band after a win over the Tide, they'd do well to get off the grid for a while the moment the Vols beat Alabama again (whenever that is).
I don't remember the specific details of the stuff that happened with the female trainer. I don't recall it ever getting into the criminal realm, but only the civil side? There hasn't been even a hint of anything like that since though, and has done a whole lot of good over the years that would probably outweigh the poor decisions he made then. Again, just my opinion.