Not many of us know what kind of agony a kicker goes through when they miss. Bulvalos is a class act. He was apologizing on twitter
I posted this on my Facebook page and you posting your comment made me want to share here as well.
I got to thinking about the missed FG after the game and I even said that you shouldnāt bash the kid because no one feels worse than him. Well, it brought back a painful experience that I had as a sophomore in HS at Corner some 30+ years ago.
We were playing at Pleasant Grove on Halloween Night and we were locked in a scoreless tie with less than 2 minutes left in the game. We were faced with a 4th down from the PG 28 yard line. Coach Gleaton calls timeout and decides that we will take the FG attempt. Now I come in to play because, Howie Eddings and myself were the kickers and I had been better in warmups, so Coach went with me for the kick. Coach slaps me on the shoulder and tells me, ā Now Hardiman, there isnāt any pressure. BUT, if you miss this kick, they will take the next snap and run that big ass tailback of theirs on a toss sweep for 80 yards and beat us 7-0. NO PRESSURE!!ā Well, now I canāt breathe! Our QB and holder, the late Matt Thomas, grabs me by the face mask and tells me, ā you got this! Keep your head down and drive through the ball! I will tell you when to look up!ā I was terrified of Matt and at the same time believed in my captain. I place the block down on the 35 yard line for what will be a 45 yard attempt. I get my steps, look at Matt and tell him that Iām ready. The snap comes, I make my approach and hit the ball in the sweet spot with that old square toe shoe and it sails into the night air. Matt screams, ālook up! Itās good!ā As I look up, the ball begins to fade to the right and sails over the top of the upright. NO GOOD! The very next snap, PG ran a toss sweep to their ābig ass tailbackā and he went 80 yards for the game winning TD. I was inconsolable!!! I cried walking across the field to shake hands. I cried in the locker room, I cried on the bus ride back to Corner. I hurt so bad. I hurt not only for myself, but for my teammates and my coaches. I had let them down. It took Matt and some other seniors to jerk a knot in my tail to get myself out of my own little pity party.
So just remember, those kids on Saturday play their hearts out for our entertainment and enjoyment. When they lose, they hurt. Joseph Bulovas posted an apology Sunday and it wasnāt necessary. People really need to take a step back, take a deep breath and relax.