In house chatter? So you are a different person here than you are in your daily life? Tennessee and Auburn fans think you like their school?
I teach my kids and their teams to not run their mouths and play hard. I tell them to talk their teammates up during the game and afterwards to be respectful. We win a big game, I don't tell them to shut up and walk to the locker room, I let them celebrate their victory and enjoy the moment. Flying your flag and stamping it at midfield is no different than the cheerleaders running the field with our school flags, our mascot running around hyping us up, or us screaming Rammer Jammer after a game. Ohio State feeling offended after they got beat is a personal problem. They decided to fight and made a mess because their feelings were hurt. Could Michigan have gone straight to their locker room? Of course they could have, but all the crap Ohio State talked about them, Michigan "not being a threat this year", and the expected butt whooping, you bet your butt I'm letting my boys sing their alma mater with the band and jump into the stands with their fans. About that, is playing your schools fight song at their stadium not wrong after you beat them? It's louder and a bigger symbol of the school than the logo, so is it off limits to you?