🏈 Nick Saban: We have a generation that doesn't get told 'no'

doemasters

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Nick Saban has had to discipline several players this spring, and he went off about the state of today’s youth following Saturday’s scrimmage.

Saban was asked about senior safety Geno Smith’s status after his arrest last month for DUI, and after saying Smith has been doing what Saban has required of him, the coach turned his comments to the mindset of players.

“These guys, they all think they have this illusion of choice,” Saban said. “Like, ‘I can do whatever I want to do.’ We kind of have a younger generation now that doesn’t always get told no. They don’t always get told, ‘This is exactly how you need to do it.’ So they have this illusion they have all these choices. But the fact of the matter is, if you want to be good, you really don’t have a lot of choices, because it takes what it takes.

“You have to do what you have to do to be successful, so you have to make the choices and decisions to have the discipline and focus to the process of what you need to do to accomplish your goals.”

Saban has said he never considered dismissing Smith and has talked about trying to put kids in the best position to succeed, but he had to dismiss Jonathan Taylor a few months after he joined the team in January due to his third arrest since March 2014. The Crimson Tide have seen several players arrested in 2015.

All these guys that think they have a lot of choices are really sadly mistaken,” Saban said. “As we all have done with our own children, they learn these lessons of life as they get older. Sometimes, the best way to learn is from the mistakes that you make, even though we all hate to have to see them make them and don’t condone it when they do. Geno has done a good job coming back doing what he’s supposed to do, and hopefully, he’ll finish that up by the end of May and go from there.”

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Amen, Saban .. I have worked with college students for over 3 years now and it's so depressing. I am just barely above them age-wise, yet we seem so vastly different in terms of ability to hear a no, or criticism. It's shocking sometimes. It's like they've always been told they can do anything and have never been disciplined. The parents do everything for them and they have no idea how to take care of themselves or be independent, responsible adults ..

Example: I'm a study abroad advisor. If a form is due to me from a student, the parent is usually the one who e-mails or calls me about it. They often FILL OUT THE FORM for the kid. One mom filled out her daughter's Personal Statement for going abroad. I was blown away. If the student never hands in the required forms by the deadline, I e-mail them saying I am withdrawing their application and the parent calls me furiously, as if it's my fault (despite the 97,000 e-mails and calls I sent to the student reminding them) ..
 
When I speak of a "younger" level, I am talking about these in K thru 2nd grade!! It only gets worse as they get older. When you throw in some athletic ability at the middle and high school level, the kids get worse and worse and the parents are a downright PAIN IN THE ASS!!! I have two at the middle school and they constantly like to throw the excuse of "well, so and so's parents let him/her do this or that!" I reply, "thank goodness, you don't live under their roof, because that would be ANOTHER PAIN IN THE ASS to deal with!"
 
Coach Saban...ever the teacher.

if only they would all just listen to him and take his advice and use it. he's been there...he's done that. he knows what works and what doesn't.

he can only make them better. yet some of them take all that for granted because someone told them they were great or they were the best and they just outright believed it without any measure of self-worth or dignity or humility.

i'd be willing to almost guarantee that most of them would quit the team if they had to go through what Coach Bryant used to do to his players. Coach Saban is tough, but what he does almost pales in comparison to what Coach Bryant used to do for practice sometimes.

these guys should feel lucky that there are "rules" now. just sayin'.....
 
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