The state wants his money. If they can't have that, they will put him in jail. That's the sad reality. Another reality is that the "land of the free" has more people incarcerated per capita than any other country in the world. Over 25% of ALL incarcerations on this planet are in the good ole' US of A with the vast majority being locked up for non-violent offenses. This, in a world of almost 7 billion people. As a nation and as a people, are we really THAT BAD? Or, are there perhaps flaws in our approach to crime and punishment in this country?
If Stabler or anyone else in a similar situation goes to jail over this their career will be ruined, their families will suffer while the centerpiece of the family unit is ripped away, and a tax-paying and otherwise law abiding citizen will be removed from society and will be replaced, at the expense of the tax payers, with a ward of the state. Surely, we can come up with a better solution than that for someone who may have had a few too many drinks at the local watering hole, who perhaps didn't maintain a lane well enough for a patrolman, and who most importantly DIDN'T HURT ANYONE!
Take his license away for some number of years? Sure. After all, there has to be accountability else we have anarchy. But if the politicians and lawyers had their way we'd all be prisoners with the only way of avoiding incarceration being the transfer of our bank accounts into theirs.
FDR's "fear itself" comment was never more relevant than it is now. Fear, and not reason, is driving many of us to vote for politicians who are running a "tough on crime" campaign with no solutions other than lock them up and throw away the key while certain blowhard pundits on the TV are singing the fear-laced chorus line every night of the week. These politicians are willing to enact legislation that is strictly punitive and makes no attempt whatsoever to help fix the underlying problem. And for what?
Will he be a better man when he gets out? Will he have more remorse than he already has? Will his family be better off? No, no, and no.
Will the fear-mongering politicians get more votes running a "tough on crime" campain? Will lawyers put tens of thousands of dollars into their pockets every time they handle a DUI case? Will certain judges who belong to the same country clubs as those lawyers also reap financial gains if the offender comes up with the right amount of cash? Yes, yes, and sadly yes.
Do I sometimes get into a cynical mood? Do I do so at the expense of those who bother to read this far down into my blathering? Yes and yes.
Seriously, I do hope and pray for him and his family that he manages to get his life and his family back on track very soon.