That is one awesome cake. I just can't understand spending all that money on a wedding that you vaguely remember as it speeds by and get five hours of fun out of. Just not a big wedding spender or believer in all of that hubbub.
My wife and I got married at Boone Hall Plantation in Charleston out back and it cost us a total of $1,000. That included her dress, chair rental, photographer, donation to church of the preacher that wed us, and everyone's entry fee. We still get compliments on our pictures and how "we wish we would have done what y'all did". It was small of course (40 people), but we had the ones we wanted there the most, we weren't flustered at all, and had a great time.