Wife has a 7th grade girl that has requested to be called ātheyā and āthemā. She refuses, but it seldom comes up. Sheās being very conscious to just refer to her by her first name even if speaker of her in 3rd person, ie would someone hand Jessica a microscope. Do you know how hard it is to remember to call 1 kid a pronoun different than what they are when you have 130 students each day? Redunkulous. Itās all for attention the girl isnāt getting elsewhere.